I should hangout with married woman and man only

A female colleague from another team was being transfered to our team today. She was assigned a new seat at our team area and is supposed to move her PC over today.

As usual, nobody offered to help her.

I was a bit reluctant to help at first. Because I know that if I help her, there will surely be some people in the office who make fun of the whole issue and joke about it. But I still help her move her PC. How do you expect a gal to carry her PC all the way from 1 table to another? And seriously, my whole project team got a lot of guys, but not many gentleman. They would sit there and look at a lady carry heavy load without helping.

And as expected, a bunch of people make fun of the whole incident shortly before lunch time infront of my teamlead. I didn’t really catch what they were saying actually, but I knew its those childish remarks about me helping a gal and stuff. Seriously, I’m very sick of all these nonsense. For goodness sake, you all are older than me, why are you all behaving so childish? I thought all these things only happen back in secondary school days. Why is it I still see such behavior at my workspace?

Is it a crime for me to help an u gal?

I don’t know what exactly is wrong with these people. Whenever I talk more often with a gal, or leave the office with a gal, or wait for the same bus with a gal, or have lunch with a gal or help a gal do something, it would means that I’m interested in her. And those people will gossip behind my back and stuff. Even go ask my friend if I’m chasing the gal. Everytime I talk to a gal who is single, someone will raise his/her eyebrows with those “You interested in her?” look. Even if the gal have boyfriend alreay, I will still get those look. What exactly is wrong with you people?

I’m sick of all these childish act.
Maybe I should hangout with married woman and man only.


  1. Then pple might say you r trying to be a home wrecker or maybe even worse… you are a gay… haaa…

    Just do wat you feel it is right lah.

  2. Ignore these bodohs lah.

    Goodness… They are soooooo immature. I think they seriously lack entertainment in their lives. Duh!

    I would have screwed all of them upside down if I were you. Geez!

  3. learn from me… the master of act blur! my act blur look is very convincing! my office always kena from me everytime they pair me up with my colleague.

    oh by the way, I carry my own stuff, including Q poles, sound system, coz there are jus so MANY useless men around….


  4. StephieD: Ya, I really think they very bored in office.

    Wish I could scold them upside down. But I can’t. If I scold them, they will bound to create problem for me at work.

  5. Dont care too must about what others think about you. Just do the right stuff.

    There is nothing wrong with being helpful to anyone, girl, gay or man. It is not always about sex.

  6. Well, it’s nice to know that there is still gentleman around.. just do what’s feel right n dont care too much bout what ppl say..

    after all, your life is at your own hand and not in the hand of other ppl..

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