My ex's wedding

Jessie got married early last month. I wasn’t invited because they held their wedding at some country club and couldn’t invite too many guest. Heng ah. Else I don’t know how am I going to attend the wedding.

Before you got me wrong, let me explain. I’m no longer in love with her anymore. We are just friends now.

Just that it would be abit weird to attend your ex’s wedding. Meeting her parents and family again. Then your friends will be watching your every action, worrying that you will create trouble. It is just….. very weird.

Anyway, I’m glad I’m not invited. Don’t need to go thru the werid feeling stuff.

I was looking at her wedding photos that she placed online. Felt happy for her that she found a good husband.

Then I saw their family photo. Its been 4 years since I’ve last seen them. Her parents looked exactly the same. The eldest sister had married her boyfriend and they had a baby gal already. The 2nd sister still looked almost the same, except prettier. The older brother didn’t change at all. The younger brother changed a lot. Could hardly recongnise him.

Amazing how much has changed within 4 years.


I was wondering….. If we didn’t break up 4 years ago, would I be able to provide her the same things now? A nice wedding, a beautiful house, a car etc etc etc…. I don’t think so.

Luckily she didn’t stick with a loser like me.


  1. Well, no one is a loser. Evyone have their own achievements, one way or another. sometimes, things just cant b compare that way. Im sure you do have your own good in you 🙂

    p/s: Im sure you’ll find someone that will love you as you are.

  2. ehh…why must u provide her with all these leh???

    if u didn’t break up with her 4yrs ago, and u must provide her with all these….then i guarantee u’ll be stressed and feel sick in ur job. and maybe fighting with her.

    i’m sure there’s another good path for u to tread.

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