Selective censorship at its best

I’ve been keeping quiet about this issue for past few months because I don’t want to blow up the entire matter. In fact, even after her several attempts to play victim in front of everyone and make me look bad on plurk, I still keep quiet because I know if the whole story is told, it will reflect very badly on her. But I think there is a limit to someone’s endurance. And the limit has been reached yesterday night when she post a blog entry scolding me an asshole.
I wrote a long blog entry detailing what happened to defend myself. I cannot sit there and let someone tarnish my reputation. Posting that blog entry will clear my name. But on the other hand, it would also reveal what happen in the background and reflect very badly on her. I spend the whole day today deciding if I should publish that blog entry. In the end, I’ve decided that I shall not scoop to her level. End of the day, my conscious is clear. I’ve done nothing wrong. That blog entry was written in a way that it selectively censored important points so that it would not reflect badly on her. If you think about it, why would I want to do such a thing if she hasn’t done anything wrong to begin with?
In fact, this is not the first time she has written her blog entry in a selective censored manner so that it only reflect badly on the other party and make her look totally innocent.
End of the day, what pisses me off the most is that I’ve treated both of them as friends. I offered my help to them when they are in need, even if it is in the middle of the night. Without asking for anything in return. And at the moment when I was at the lowest point in my life, they decided to add more problem to my long list of headache. I don’t know if it is purposely or coincidentally that this thing pop out when I’m already troubled by tons of stuffs at work and personal life. Whatever it is, I thank both of them for repaying my kindness in this manner at this perfect timing.


  1. It is certainly no mean feat to restrain oneself especially when feeling wronged. Having been in similar situations, I can empathize. And for that, I applaud your efforts.

  2. There are those who do think of you as a good friend. I will not mention the details, but good friends keep what they treasure in their hearts, not on their mouths. 🙂

  3. This is an interesting turn of events.
    *Pat pat* no worries asshole. You still have many other good friends around. Or not so good ones like me ;x
    If I read this last year, I would have jumped up and said “omg, why did you upset Jean” but today… All I can say is… Get used to it. I’ve learnt my lesson, you should too.
    If you fall, I don’t mind being there, but definitely not to catch you. Sorry but you’re a bit too heavy. Hurhur.
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